Category: Sex

  • Thailand legalises same-sex marriage in historic law

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    In a landmark move for LGBTQ+ rights, Thailand has officially become the first country in Southeast Asia to legalise same-sex marriage. The new legislation, passed by Thailand’s parliament, marks a major milestone in the global fight for equality and sets a progressive example for neighboring countries. The legislation ensures that same-sex couples in Thailand will have the same legal rights as heterosexual couples, including inheritance, joint property ownership, and adoption. The historic decision is a testament to the country’s growing acceptance of diverse identities and its commitment to protecting the rights of all its citizens.

    The road to equality

    This achievement follows years of advocacy and tireless campaigning by LGBTQ+ activists in Thailand, who have fought for the recognition of same-sex partnerships since the early 2000s. Whilst Thailand has long been known for its relative tolerance towards LGBTQ+ individuals compared to other countries in the region, legal rights had lagged behind social acceptance—until now. The law also reflects Thailand’s unique cultural and social landscape, where LGBTQ+ representation in media, entertainment, and public life is visible but has often coexisted with systemic inequities. By enshrining marriage equality into law, Thailand demonstrates a tangible step towards aligning legal frameworks with societal values of inclusion and respect.

    A regional pioneer

    This legislation positions Thailand as a regional trailblazer in LGBTQ+ rights, particularly in Southeast Asia, where homosexuality remains criminalized in several nations. Thailand’s move could influence other countries to reconsider their policies, potentially sparking broader discussions about LGBTQ+ rights across Asia. Neighbouring countries such as Vietnam and Taiwan have made strides toward greater LGBTQ+ acceptance in recent years, but full marriage equality remains rare. Taiwan remains the only other Asian country to have legalized same-sex marriage, doing so in 2019. Thailand’s addition to this short list is expected to bolster the regional and global movement for equality.

    Economic and social implications

    The legalisation of same-sex marriage also has significant economic implications. Experts anticipate a boost to Thailand’s wedding and tourism industries, as LGBTQ+ couples from around the world may flock to the country to celebrate their unions. Already a popular destination for LGBTQ+ travellers, Thailand could further cement its reputation as an inclusive and welcoming nation. On the social front, the law is expected to challenge lingering prejudices and inspire future generations to advocate for equal rights in other areas.

    Looking forward

    Whilst this historic decision is cause for celebration, activists recognise that the fight for equality is far from over. Ensuring the effective implementation of the law and combating discrimination in all its forms will require sustained effort and vigilance. Thailand’s decision to legalise same-sex marriage sends a powerful message to the world: love knows no boundaries. By granting equal rights to all couples, the country has taken a monumental step toward a more inclusive future, offering hope and inspiration for LGBTQ+ individuals everywhere.

    As the celebrations unfold, it is clear that Thailand has set a precedent that could reverberate far beyond its borders, redefining the possibilities for equality and human rights in the 21st century.


  • Trailer: S#X ACTS

    S#X ACTS poster

    Sexy sex and more sex, usually, celebrated in voyeurism

    Naïve teen Gili (Sivan Levy) changes schools and is determined to improve her social status by hooking up with the most popular guys. But as she pushes her own limits with every new encounter — offering a succession of sexual favors and allowing herself to be photographed and filmed — the line of consent begins to blur. Israeli filmmaker Jonathan Gurfinkel’s provocative debut is raw, racy, and immediately recognizable. This is a must-see, for sure. We’re curious to know how it ends. You should totally come watch it with us or see it at one of the amazing select theaters in New York on December 6th or watch it on demand on December 3rd. Whichever works best.

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    Running time: 96 Minutes
    Rated: Unrated
    VOD and iTunes: December 3
    In Select Theaters: December 6


  • Re: What kind of lesbian are you?

    Apparently, I am a counterculture toughie lesbian.

    Shortly after washing a sink full of dishes that my marvelous family neglected before going on vacation — hey, I am a make-the-mess-clean-the-mess type of woman — like any normal mortal existing in this century, I checked my email.

    It’s scary in there.

    After deleting a slew of spam letters and guest post offers, in which, do not truly fit the nature of my website — Isn’t that hard to believe? — eventually, I opened the latest DowneLink newsletter.

    “What Kind of Lesbian Are You?”, it asked. I don’t know about you, but as detailed and descriptive as I tend to be, I couldn’t think of a straight answer. Subsequently, like any sexually confused person or downright inquisitive earthling, I clicked on the link. I couldn’t help it.

    In seconds, thankfully to the fast Internet that I pay decent money for, a page on this website downloaded. Four types of lesbians were highlighted and I didn’t identify with any of them.

    I was saddened.

    Then, I realized there were pages, more content to be read and entertained by. I grew happier by the second.

    On page 3, the last page, there I was. The brown counterculture lesbian who doesn’t own a pair of Doc Martin’s but can easily say she has tons of friends and fans who do. Oh, and I don’t drink dirty chais from Starbucks, but I slam soy chai teas when I’m kicking it in Pacific Palisades with friends old enough to father me and when I am at Starbucks, I order a hot chocolate with ice and soy.

    Don’t ask. It’s a bizarre preference.

    It’s true. I love lace more than I love boys, and I can cover or attend an event for a complimentary pair of boots. Often, I wear my lacy items with boots, because that’s what just what counterculture toughie thug lesbians do. I live in New York City, and I am into crowd-watching. It’s seldom you get to watch so many different types of people, in their natural habitat, so to speak, being themselves. I take pleasure in snapping pictures of random tourists, transplants and natives all the same, for the aforementioned reason. I don’t wash my own hair often because my Colombian princess slash hair stylist Blanca takes care of it.

    Lastly and unfortunately, I don’t sell sex toys. It doesn’t seem like a bad occupation to have. I love Claire Cavanah and Rachel Venning (owners of Babeland) and not until this very moment, I haven’t told anyone that I frequent Babeland events. There it is, the cat’s out of the bag. Not that it was a secret. I’ve published a print issue inspired by human sexuality and religion a few years ago and without shame, I own a cupcake mold that serves 6 penis cakes and I do not own any sex toys.

    With all of that personal information written and shared, I must ask: Does the title or idea of the counterculture toughie really fit my lesbian persona or am I just an unidentifiable lesbian whose character or style is left to be covered and pinpointed in the near future? Or am I lesbian at all? The world may never know…